Reviews for Messages men hear

The average rating for Messages men hear based on 2 reviews is 3.5 stars.

Review # 1 was written on 2018-11-30 00:00:00 John Pearmon 301118: opposite shelves at the u of feminist studies is a much smaller section of male studies. i looked at several, some history, sociology, cultural, and this one that is based on analysis of surveys. it is from 1980 and society (here mostly white, middle class, american) has changed greatly. i remember the 80s. i am male, upper-middle class, pass as white, not visibly or culturally different, and i grew up unconsciously as a male, receiving messages from my parents, not particularly following any of harris' categories as standard bearer, nature lover, boss, worker, lover, stoic, adventurer... but these message did exist did effect me did annoy me- but my conviction as artist overwhelmed all of them. i thought to be different, i am not so too much. interesting book makes me think, recall, analyze my becoming man. i wonder how it works for boy 38 years later (now)...

Review # 2 was written on 2013-02-24 00:00:00 Jenni Fender You know you've crossed the line into some kind of new nerd-dom when you read textbooks for fun. And yet, that is what the reading of Men's Lives was for me. I enjoy reading feminist perspectives, and picked up the textbook to see how one would explain how men become men. It was an educational and thought-provoking journey as I jumped from articles on what "macho" means to men to how men with disabilities still maintain their idea of masculinity. Most of the articles are written with feminist ideals and undertones, but some are not. The collection is diverse and provides a good overview on issues that were as relevant at the time this edition came out (2004) to present day. Some of the articles I marked for further study in a classroom environment or expansion in this collection include: The Black Male: Searching Beyond Stereotypes; Gender, Class and Terrorism; The Fraternal Bond as a Joking Relationship: A Case Study of the Role of Sexist Jokes in Male Group Bonding; Why College Men Drink: Alcohol, Adventure, and the Paradox of Masculinity; The Glass Escalator: Hidden Advantages for Men in the "Female Professions"; Confessions of a Nice Negro, or Why I Shaved My Head; If Men Could Menstruate; Coming to Terms: Masculinity and Physical Disability; The Approach--Avoidance Dance: Men, Women and Intimacy; Men on Rape; The Heterosexual Questionnaire; and Strategies Men Use to Resist.save as The article "If Men Could Menstruate," written by feminist pioneer Gloria Steinem, was particularly intriguing, funny, and generated some new thoughts for me. Also, "Strategies Men Use to Resist," that details reasons men use to shift housekeeping to women gave me some perspective with tackling my own division of labor in the home. Whether student, teacher, or just interested human, I think everyone can benefit from reading some of the articles in this text. The work has a strong push to make the reader realize that men and women can be comrades in arms in the fight for equality, health and happiness and I think everyone can be a little more open to this.