Reviews for Como vivir con un neurotico

The average rating for Como vivir con un neurotico based on 2 reviews is 3.5 stars.

Review # 1 was written on 2012-12-04 00:00:00 Kevin Hunzeker Toti nevroticii au o frica irationala de ceva. Se tem de ceea ce gandesc oamenii. Isi traduc frica de dezaprobare in fobii concrete, hipersensibilitate si suspiciune exagerata: ei cred ca nu sunt pe placul semenilor. Multi nevrotici se comporta cu ostilitate si resentiment. Ei cred ca lumea ii nedreptateste. Nevroticii actioneaza ineficient. Multi fac lucrurile aiurea sau nu le fac deloc. Lucreaza nesistematic, compulsiv, se impotmolesc si complica lucrurile. Se ambaleaza emotional astfel incat nu se mai pot gandi la rezolvarea problemelor si tind sa dea vina pe ceilalti. Au un caracter tensionat: coordonare slaba, incapacitatea de a se linisti. Recunoasteti cu claritate si acceptati faptul ca au tulburari. Ei actioneaza intr-o maniera pe care nu se poate pune baza, cu furie, nerecunostinta, egoist si fara dragoste. Daca va intrebati de ce au facut asta?, raspunsul e „din cauza nevrozei, nu pentru ca ma urasc, pentru ca au ceva cu mine." Deseori se comporta nevrotic. Nu reactionati la actiunile nevroticilor ca si cum le-ar directiona anume impotriva dvs. Actiunile se nasc deseori din sentimente indreptate spre propria lor persoana. Nu isi aleg deliberat un comportament neplacut. In principal se urasc pe ei insisi. continuarea pe

Review # 2 was written on 2015-10-13 00:00:00 Noah Maciag the book is very insightful in terms of the problems that can come up that make people hard to live with. It talks of many instances and ways of thinking that can get in the way of good relationships with others and a better level of confidence. Both therapists and lay people can use this book well to learn more about human nature, and specifically emotional issues. However, the book labels a lot, almost as if therapists are in a constant debate with the client. I am much more of a collaborative person and could not digest the harsh terminology. However, towards the end I saw that among trustworthy reading resources, Ellis did mention Rogers' On Becoming A Person, and I was quite touched. This was written during a time when the therapist-client relationship was mostly didactic, and maybe the tone is just a reflection of the zietgiest of those times.