An Unconventional Family Book

Found this brief memoir incredibly interesting, not simply in light of Bem's suicide, but in terms of her entire life. I studied with her at Cornell when I was an undergrad, and had no idea how young she was, nor how new were the ideas and theories she was wrestling with.
Yes, there are problems with it from a writer's point of view--structural problems and problems that I can only term issues of emotional honesty, although Bem is quite clear that she is aware of the latter. But overall, so worth reading that I want to give it a full 5 star rating. Especially the last sections, the interviews with her children and the essay from her husband, which so deeply support the commitment this family made to gender neutrality, a nearly impossible goal to achieve. I learned so much from reading this, not only about this odd and brilliant family, but also about my own ingrained assumptions, that I don't think I'll ever stop pondering it.