Understand Him and Keep Him Book

If you're having trouble starting a journal and want to make it about sex this is a great tutorial.

I appreciated a good amount of this book. But it's weird to me that there were no PDF materials for audiobook. Especially since I think many of these prompts and almost-quizzes are quite good. I think it could really help people who have a dead/dying sex life. The second half may really help those who feel like they date and never get any further. The exercise to think of your big crushes, write their traits and look for patterns then thing of places you could meet more people with that trait or two is especially good.

to those ends I'm putting the 30 statements here for others (you must pick exactly 9 about your dream relationship/partner)

I want my partner to show me how hot they find me without my having to ask them
I want my partner to ache with desire for me
I want my partner to rip my clothes off and do me on the kitchen counter
I want to writhe with anticipation over a romantic dinner for two
I want my partner to talk dirty to me and make me wait until I'm ready to beg
I want to have crazy knock down drag out sex with my partner until we both pass out
I want my partner to seduce me
I want my partner to want to do with to/with me in bed that they never did with anybody else before
I want my pulse to race when my partner touches me
I want to get turned on by just the thought of having sex with my partner
I want my partner to be desperate at the thought of us breaking up
I want my partner to be jealous of other men/women
I want my partner to want to spend more time with me
I want my partner to tell me I'm the best lover they've ever had
I want there to be no secrets between us
I want my partner to promise we'll be together forever
I want my partner to tell me I'm the love of their life
I want my partner to write me love letters, buy me little gifts, and leave me notes on the refrigerator
I want my partner to swear they'll never love someone else
I want my partner to be so content they can't even fantasize about another
I want my partner to make me laugh
I want to have great conversations with my partner and never get bored
I want my partner to stand by me in good times and bad
I want my partner to be trustworthy, loyal, and truthful
I want my partner to know how I'd react to something without me having to ask
I want my partner to remember birthdays, anniversaries and other special occasions
I want my partner to really like my friends and family
I want my partner to be open to change
I want my partner to respect me and be supportive of my decisions
I want my partner to grow old with me

the first 10 are lust, second 10 are love professions, last 10 are attachment.