Self and Relationships: Connecting Intrapersonal and Interpersonal Processes Book

1	Introduction : self and relationships	1
2	The importance of self-regulation for interpersonal functioning	15
3	Pursuing goals and perceiving others : a self-regulatory perspective on interpersonal relationships	32
4	Narcissism, interpersonal self-regulation, and romantic relationships : an agency model approach	57
5	Contingencies of self-worth and self-validation goals : implications for close relationships	84
6	The inner and outer turmoil of excessive reassurance seeking : from self-doubts to social rejection	104
7	An attachment theory perspective on the interplay between intrapersonal and interpersonal processes	133
8	Implicit theories of relationships and coping in romantic relationships	160
9	Organization of partner knowledge : implications for liking and loving, longevity, and change	177
10	From altruism to aggression : understanding social interaction	193
11	A functional, evolutionary analysis of the impact of interpersonal events on intrapersonal self-processes	219
12	Rejection's impact on self-defeating, prosocial, antisocial, and self-regulatory behaviors	237
13	Does the existence of social relationships matter for subjective well-being?	254
14	Cognitive interdependence : considering self-in-relationship	274
15	High-maintenance interaction and self-regulation	297
16	The Michelangelo phenomenon : partner affirmation and self movement toward one's ideal	317
17	The effect of shared participation in novel and challenging activities on experienced relationship quality : is it mediated by high positive affect?	342
18	Self-regulation in interpersonal relationships : the case of action versus state orientation	360
19	When your wish is my desire : a triangular model of self-regulatory relationships	387
20	Succeeding at self-control through a focus on others : the roles of social practice and accountability in self-regulation	407