Jane Sexes It Up: True Confessions of Feminist Desire Book

Jane Sexes It UP has many essays by self-proclaimed third-wave feminists, but was written in the 90's and early 2000's. It seems dated and it deals with issues that, frankly, aren't real issues for me as a feminist. Is it wrong to masturbate to fantasies of being a man and cumming on a woman's face? Um, no. Is it wrong to jill it to the violence of "Fight Club"? No again. I commend the book for trying to enlist men into the ranks of feminism, but the book is written primarily by upper-middle class, white, women of privilege who are, it seems, unaware of their privilege. Sure, stripping and being an "escort" in college can be a choice for these women, but their writing seems oblivious of the multitudes for whom sex-work is a necessity, exploitation (not quaintly by "the male gaze") is a daily encounter, and sex is a form of socio-economic oppression, not just oppression by a patriarchy.