Five Conversations You Must Have with Your Daughter Book

The title should be Five CHRISTIAN Conversations You Must Have with Your Good CHRISTIAN Daughter.

Warning: If you are a "Godly" person and you can handle being constantly assaulted with all the talk about God, bible verses, modesty, purity and you are a total prude with a need to control every move your child makes - you will probably like this. I would venture to assume that if your daughter has the ability to think for herself, she won't tolerate this kind control over her life once she hits her teen years. Especially if you are growing up in California's Silicon Valley around the year 2015.

I'm really frustrated at all the bible verse quotes and she must reference the word "Christian" at least 2 or 3 times per page. I didn't realize she ministered to christian teens for many years. That simple fact would have made me pass on this book.

Maintaining a girls PURITY is high on her list.
Disclaimer: The word purity PISSES ME OFF!!!
This word serves to tell the female population that sex without marriage is dirty and you should be shamed if you make such a horrendous decision. While the male population does not suffer the same consequences, they get a pass, almost saying males can't help it while denying the existence of female sexuality and desire.

She is also hypocritical when it comes to what she expects the boys to do in order to "date" her daughter. However, on the flip side - she calls her son at college and he is unaware of these "rules". For me, it's the Christian religion wrapped up in a very simple little box. We expect our girls to jump through all these hoops, to feel demeaned and ashamed by their own sexuality and are basically told if you can't control your sexuality - you are a whore, you are weak and you are a disappointment to God. While boys don't have any of this pressure, they walk away without all the damaging ideas of what sex is. It's BULLSHIT. When 2 mature adults want to explore their God given bodies, it shouldn't have

I gave it 2 stars because she made some good points.