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This classic resource shows parents how to set clear, concise guidelines to ensure positive and constructive discipline.
Samalin founded the Parent Guidance Workshops in New York City 10 years ago. With Jablow ( Cara: Growing Up with a Retarded Child, she presents here persuasive and readily accessible counseling based on workshop sessions with clients. Mothers and fathers record dialogues between them and their small children and bring the transcripts to Samalin for analysis. Readers will laugh, perhaps nervously, at examples of familiar aggravations. In one case study, Chip starts an argument with his mother, demanding that she be the one to dress him. She loses patience; the battle escalates. Soon parent and tot are ``discussing'' on the same level: his. Parents are advised how to talk to their children in tense situations, minor and major. The central idea is that they can discipline their youngsters effectively by first training themselves to think before reacting negatively to misbehavior. 20,000 first printing; first serial to Parents magazine; author tour. (March)
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Howard Persh
reviewed Loving Your Child Is Not Enough: Positive Discipline That Works on March 10, 2021
Loving Your Child Is Not Enough
Had some great take aways, but I felt like all of the examples were unrealistic EXTREMES in which I could not relate. But I like the premise, and it taught some great principles.
There's no such thing as "constructive criticism" when the meaning of "to construct" is to build something up, and the definition of criticize is "an expression of disapproval for faults & mistakes", or tearing something down. Focus the needed teaching moment on the lesson or the deed rather than the child. (Ie. Leaving the door open let's the bugs in. Dishes belong in the sink. Fighting brings an icky feeling into our home (rather than: YOU are always fighting with everyone).
Pure parental love & good intentions for your children can NOT outweigh a lack of skill.
Will what I am going to say cause Confrontation or Cooperation?
Parent Deaf - SPEAK IN 1 WORD RULE
Children resist Orders as much as Verbiage.
When you offer a child a choice between what you want them to do and a negative consequence, it's really not a choice at all. It's a manipulative threat.
When children are upset, they are not amenable to REASON.
Punitive.
Distance yourself from battles BEFORE imposing LOGICAL direct consequences to poor behavior, with the intent to teach the correct form of said behavior
Disengage from Children's predicaments not to abandon, but to more fully increase their confidence, problem solving skills and independence.
Sibling rivalry is INEVITABLE. The only way to prevent it is by having only 1 child.
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