Friends and Family Book

Thank you to Health Communication Inc and NetGalley for allowing me to read this book. My thoughts are my own.

As a word of introduction, I first heard Dr. Slattery on a radio broadcast. Since then, I've listened to her podcast and read several of her books.

In fact, I jumped at the chance to read Finding the Hero in Your Husband, Revisited. Hers is a voice of Biblical reason in an ever-changing culture.

While reading, I remembered who I was as a young bride. In fact, I recalled the good and the bad of those early years. Looking back, I hope I have grown since then!

That's not to say I didn't get anything out of reading it as a wife of 18 years. Rather, I highlighted substantially, knowing that I am always learning. I read areas that convicted me of attitudes that need to change.

This book touches specifically on all aspects of marriage. Topics include communication, physical intimacy, submission and boundaries. Again, she even discusses difficult subjects, and as a result touches on abuse and addiction.

After reading this book, I recommend that every wife read it. No matter what stage she is in. It would be the perfect gift for a bridal shower. Additionally, this would be a great book to read in a small group or counseling setting.

Why You Should Read This Book
After five years of marriage, Dr. Slattery decided to write the first version of Finding the Hero in Your Husband. Imagine that! I don't think I was anywhere near ready to write a book on marriage 13 years ago. Even today, I still don't think I could!

In contrast, Dr. Slattery took the challenge.

Now, after 20 years, she has returned, with an extensive rewrite that incorporates her life experience as a wife, as well as a seasoned counselor. To me, this represents the best of both worlds. First, we can see Dr. Slattery as a young bride, encouraging wives to celebrate their husbands' qualities as a younger woman. We can also see Dr. Slattery's added wisdom from her years as a wife and a wise counselor.

To me, this is the biggest reason this book differs from other marriage resources. Additionally, like I said before, Dr. Slattery's message has been constant. She stands firm on her Biblical values. She uses the scriptures throughout the book, pointing us back to God's word.