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Preface | XV |
1. The Invisible Army | 1 |
Nursing home myths and misperceptions | |
Stereotype #1: Nursing homes are warehouses for | |
unwanted people | |
Stereotype #2: All nursing home residents are | |
senile or demented | |
Stereotype #3: Nursing home residents have few | |
legal rights | |
Stereotype #4: Families have little say in the | |
treatment | |
Stereotype #5: Nursing homes only offer basic | |
careno frills required | |
Stereotype #6: Only selfish, lazy people put | |
family members in nursing homes | |
A framework for caregiving | |
Plan ahead | |
Get advice | |
Get others involved | |
Keep colleagues informed | |
Take care of yourself | |
Put things in perspective | |
2. When Someone You Love Just Can't Make It Alone: Signs | 10 |
and Symptoms, Strategies and Solutions | |
Common signs of functional decline | |
What factors contribute to functional decline? | |
Physical changes | |
Perceptual changes | |
Cognitive changes | |
Psychologicalchanges | |
Distinguishing temporary decline from long-term deterioration | |
Seeking a diagnosis and beginning treatment | |
Learning about the illness and planning ahead | |
Considering psychological factors | |
Getting your loved one to see the doctor | |
Getting your loved one to see a mental healthprofessional | |
The emotional side of caregiving: Changing roles | |
The adult child's perspective | |
The spouse's perspective | |
The sibling's perspective | |
Caregiver stress and its effects | |
Emotional signs | |
Physical symptoms | |
Cognitive signs | |
Coping with stress before it overwhelms you | |
3. In-Home Care: Autonomy, Continuity, and a Bit of Extra Help | 30 |
Finding and funding good in-home care | |
Who may provide in-home care? | |
Certified home health care agencies | |
Independent providers | |
How to evaluate an agency or provider | |
Questions to ask the agency | |
Questions to ask the independent provider | |
Questions to ask former clients and their families | |
Caregiver qualities you'll have to assess yourself | |
The trial period | |
When problems arise during in-home care | |
Important warning signs of a poor home-care worker | |
Confronting a poor caregiver | |
Signs of abuse, neglect, or exploitation | |
Physical symptoms | |
Psychological symptoms | |
Financial signs | |
Reporting abuse, neglect, or exploitation | |
4 | When In-Home Care Becomes Impossible: Screaming, Crying, |
Fighting ... and Moving On | 48 |
Talking about options with other family members | |
Beginning the discussion | |
Exploring possibilities | |
Building consensus | |
Turning thoughts into actions | |
Raising the issue with the care receiver | |
Who should participate? | |
Where should you meet? | |
When should you do it? | |
Common care receiver objections | |
Excuses | |
Guilt-tripping | |
Threats | |
Recognizing and accepting the person's fears | |
Developing a partnership with the care receiver | |
When your loved one is determined to disagree | |
The concept of competency | |
If you're in charge | |
5 | Choosing the Right Placement Setting: Thinking Clearly in |
the Midst of Chaos | 66 |
Varieties of placement settings | |
Senior communities | |
Group homes | |
Assisted living facilities | |
Skilled care facilities | |
Long-term care | |
Continuing care communities | |
Obtaining information about a specific setting | |
Getting technical ratings | |
Talking to administrators | |
Talking to residents and their families | |
Inspecting the facility | |
The physical setting | |
The milieu | |
The intangibles | |
Funding: Who pays for what? | |
Medicare | |
Medicaid | |
Medigap insurance | |
Secondary insurance | |
Long-term care insurance | |
Veteran's benefits | |
What if we run out of money? | |
Must the nursing home get it all? | |
6 | Leaving Home for the Nursing Home: Preparing for the |
Dreaded Day | 91 |
Psychological preparations | |
Discussing last-minute fears and concerns | |
Avoiding last-minute surprises | |
What to pack (and leave behind) | |
Clothing | |
Toiletries | |
Familiar items | |
Orienting cues | |
Legal preparations | |
Last will and testament | |
Advance directives | |
Power of attorney | |
Funeral arrangements | |
Financial preparations | |
Budgets | |
Banking, bills, and taxes | |
Asset management | |
Preparing the house | |
If the house will be unoccupied | |
If someone will remain in the home | |
7 | Anxiety, Anger, Fear, and Guilt: Adjusting to the New |
Situation | 110 |
Common reactions to placing a family member in a nursing home | |
Adjusting to the nursing home: The patient's perspective | |
The arrival | |
The settling-in period | |
Long-term adjustment | |
Building new routines in a changing relationship | |
Visits in the nursing home | |
The rhythm of the nursing home | |
Timing of visits | |
Length of visits | |
Who should go? | |
What should you do? | |
The off-grounds pass | |
Leaving and returning: Practical considerations | |
Sign-outs | |
Equipment | |
Medications | |
Getting out the door (and back in at the end) | |
Staying connected between visits | |
Telephone contact | |
Contact by mail | |
Establishing a communication routine | |
8 | Confrontation or PartnershipIt's Up to You: A |
Down-and-Dirty Guide to Nursing Home Politics | 130 |
Nursing home staff: The cast of characters | |
Administrators | |
Physicians | |
Nursing staff | |
Social services | |
Dietary services | |
Activities services | |
Pastoral/Clergy | |
Therapies and ancillary services | |
Housekeeping and maintenance | |
Allied and support services | |
Admissions, billing, and human resources | |
Interfacing with staff: Your arenas of influence | |
Admission review meetings: Where plans are formed | |
Care plan meetings: Where decisions are made | |
Resident and family councils: Where concerns are voiced | |
Interactions with caregivers: Where family | |
and staff connect | |
Constructive interventions: How to get what you want | |
(and be loved while you're doing it) | |
When complaining is the only way | |
Legal rights of residents | |
Legal rights of family members | |
9 | Old Age Ain't for Sissies: Late-Life Medical Problems and |
How to Deal With Them | 151 |
The aging body: Different parts work at different speeds | |
Some processes slow as we age | |
Some processes accelerate as we age | |
Some things never change | |
Common medical problems in nursing home residents | |
Dementias and other neurological syndromes | |
Cancers | |
Joint diseases | |
Skin problems | |
Vascular and cardiac diseases | |
Metabolic and endocrine diseases | |
Diseases of the eye | |
Pulmonary disease | |
Renal and urinary disorders | |
Digestive/elimination difficulties | |
Why treat it if you can't make it better? | |
10 | A Realistic Approach to Behavior Problems: No More Peeing |
in the Petunias | 171 |
Behavior problems: Causes and treatments | |
Common behavior problems in nursing home residents | |
Insulting and accusing others | |
Wandering | |
Stealing | |
Hoarding | |
Aggression | |
Repetitive questioning and repetitious behavior | |
Refusing to eat | |
Noncompliance | |
Inappropriate elimination | |
Inappropriate sexual behavior | |
Hidden factors that set the stage for problems | |
Inadequate staffing | |
Sensory overload | |
Boredom | |
Medication problems | |
The wrong neighbors | |
Knowing when to call in the experts | |
Signs that a quick response is needed | |
What you should do | |
What staff will do | |
The suicidal nursing home patient | |
What to look for | |
What to do | |
Maintaining a good relationship with the troubled loved one | |
Tips for adult children | |
Tips for spouses | |
Tips for siblings | |
11. When Things Get Better: The Transition Back Home | 191 |
Discharge settings | |
Discharge planning meetings | |
Staff input | |
Family input | |
Resident input | |
The nuts and bolts of discharge: Three key tasks | |
Establishing current level of care needs | |
Determining the appropriate setting | |
Establishing follow-up services | |
Legal and financial arrangements, revisited | |
Legal (re)arrangements | |
Financial (re)arrangements | |
Social Security and its limitations | |
Making the home safe and secure | |
Accessibility | |
Injury prevention | |
Security | |
Emergency preparations | |
Orienting cues and memory aids | |
12. When It's Time to Let Go: Hospice and Beyond | 211 |
The pros and cons of aggressive interventions | |
Arguments in favor of aggressive end-of-life care | |
Arguments against aggressive end-of-life care | |
The hospice option | |
What is hospice? | |
What can hospice do? | |
Who is eligible for hospice? | |
Who pays? | |
Emotional reactions to the end of life | |
The patient's perspective | |
The family's perspective | |
Physical changes at life's end | |
Grieving your loss | |
Immediate reactions | |
Short-term coping | |
Long-term survival | |
Epilogue: You've Come This Far and You've Survived | 230 |
Checklists, Worksheets, and Resources | 235 |
Checklists | |
Home Health Care Comparison Checklist | |
Nursing Home Comparison Checklist | |
Personal Documents and Papers | |
What to Bring to the Nursing Home | |
Records a Nursing Home May Request | |
Worksheets | |
Monthly Income and Expenses Worksheet | |
Calculating a Person's Net Worth | |
Medical/Health History | |
Resource and Contact Information | |
Accessibility/Home Modification | |
Agencies on Aging Contact Information | |
Caregiver Resources/Support | |
Elder Abuse | |
Eldercare Products and Services | |
Financial/Legal Resources | |
Funeral Planning | |
Health Information | |
Home Care Agency Contact/Accreditation Information | |
Hospice Resources | |
Housing/Assisted Living | |
Long-Term-Care Ombudsman Contact Information | |
Medicare, Medicaid, and Other Insurance Information | |
Mental Health Information | |
National Organizations/Advocacy Groups Related to Aging | |
Nursing Home Contact/Accreditation Information | |
Physical and Occupational Therapy | |
Tax Information | |
Veteran's Information/Resources | |
Index | 264 |
About the Authors | 270 |
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