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Introduction: The New Rules of the Game | 1 | |
How the laws are hurting women | ||
What you can do to protect yourself and your children | ||
How to get the most out of this book | ||
1 | The Right Lawyer for You | 7 |
How to find, question, and pick an attorney | ||
Eight kinds of lawyers to avoid | ||
Should you choose a man or woman? | ||
The "toughness" factor | ||
How divorce lawyers feel about women as clients | ||
What your divorce will cost | ||
How to make sure you don't overpay | ||
Your rights as a client | ||
2 | Your Husband Is No Longer Your Partner | 23 |
Overcoming the "Trust Me" Syndrome | ||
How to protect yourself: what to do about joint accounts, credit cards, safe-deposit boxes | ||
The dangers of moving out or locking him out | ||
Should you sleep in the same bedroom? | ||
How to deal with threats and pressure | ||
3 | The Opening Legal Moves | 32 |
How your lawyer will start a divorce action | ||
What happens if your husband resists? | ||
Steps your lawyer can take to get you temporary support, shield you from abuse, keep your husband from hiding the family money | ||
How to protect yourself if you are having an affair | ||
Can you hold on to a husband who wants to leave? | ||
Will your lawyer pressure you to go through with a divorce? | ||
4 | Old-Fashioned Detective Work and Space-Age Accounting | 44 |
What wives don't know about the family money | ||
The records your lawyer needs and how to get them | ||
The "discovery" process to uncover hidden assets and income | ||
What if everything is in his name? | ||
The surprising property you are entitled to--if you can find it | ||
The importance of pinning down the value of what you own | ||
How to get your share of his pension | ||
5 | The "Passages" of Divorce | 57 |
Why your friends' divorces are no guide to your own | ||
The special needs of and strategies for: The young woman with a brief marriage | ||
The young mother of pre-school children | ||
The working woman with school-age children | ||
The full-time housewife with children still at home | ||
The woman with grown children who has worked throughout her marriage | ||
The older homemaker who has not held a paying job during her marriage | ||
6 | "Isn't He Going to Pay for What He Did?" | 70 |
What "no-fault laws" really mean | ||
Does it matter who ends the marriage and why? | ||
How to stop being bullied | ||
The best way to punish an unfaithful husband | ||
Dealing with his wounded pride when you have found someone else | ||
How to win a judge's sympathy | ||
7 | Negotiating to Get What You Deserve | 80 |
The unexpected problems that come up in a "reasonable" agreement | ||
How your lawyer can use leverage to get you what you want | ||
Ways women undermine their bargaining position | ||
Your role in the negotiations | ||
Taking advantage of a husband's blind spots | ||
When and how to settle | ||
A sure way to test your doubts about a proposed agreement | ||
8 | How to Protect Your Children Psychologically | 99 |
The problem of "custody blackmail" | ||
How parents use their children as weapons | ||
What you can do to prevent a court contest | ||
The difference between legal custody and where children live | ||
How judges decide when both parents want custody | ||
What you must do at a trial | ||
Will the children have to testify? | ||
Five questions to answer before you agree to joint custody | ||
Your husband's and your in-laws' visitation rights | ||
9 | How to Protect Your Children Financially | 112 |
The new state guidelines for child support and what they do | ||
How to calculate your child-care costs | ||
Ways to guarantee that he will pay | ||
The expenses to anticipate and how to provide for them in an agreement | ||
The best way to prevent future arguments over support and visitation | ||
10 | Going to Trial | 123 |
If your lawyer recommends against a trial, should you get a new lawyer? | ||
What it takes to change a judge's mind | ||
A step-by-step guide to preparing for a trial | ||
How to be your own best witness | ||
The art of coping with cross-examination | ||
When your lawyer can denounce your husband | ||
The judge's decision | ||
Your lawyer's last-minute chance to gain advantages for you | ||
11 | It's Over--Isn't It? | 145 |
The emotional aftermath of divorce | ||
A checklist of legal and financial steps to starting your single life | ||
What to do about managing your money | ||
Where to get help with the psychological scars of divorce | ||
How to handle the post-divorce legal problems that come up | ||
The rewards of making peace with your former husband | ||
12 | What Every Happily Married Woman Must Know About Divorce | 155 |
The lessons of divorce | ||
How the no-fault laws have changed the marriage contract | ||
What wives can do to protect themselves without hurting their husbands | ||
The question of pre-nuptial and post-nuptial contracts | ||
Changing the laws to give women better protection | ||
Appendix A | The Legal Steps in Divorce | 167 |
Appendix B | State-by-State Laws | 173 |
Acknowledgments | 176 | |
Index | 177 |
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