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From the internationally acclaimed author of An Unquiet Mind comes a haunting meditation on mortality, grief, and loss.
Perhaps no one but Kay Redfield Jamison---who combines the acute perceptions of a psychologist with writerly elegance and passion---could bring such a delicate touch to the subject of losing a spouse to cancer. In spare and at times strikingly lyrical prose, Jamison looks back at her relationship with her husband, Richard Wyatt, a renowned scientist who battled severe dyslexia to become one of the foremost experts on schizophrenia. And with characteristic honesty, she describes his slow surrender to cancer, her own struggle with overpowering grief, and her efforts to distinguish grief from depression.
Jamison also recalls the joy that Richard brought her during the nearly twenty years they had together. Wryly humorous anecdotes mingle with bittersweet memories of a relationship that was passionate and loving...
The great gift Jamison offers here, beyond her honesty and the beauty of her writing, is perspective: a clear-eyed view of illness and death, sanity and insanity, love and grief. As she writes, she often invokes the words of scientists, philosophers, novelists and poets, from Sigmund Freud to Graham Greene to Edna St. Vincent Millay. The excerpts are well chosen, but the voice that rings truest is her own, with its disciplined mix of openness and restraint. Once again, Jamison seems to be telling the truth, no matter how difficult it may be, in a way that avoids self-pity and inspires courage. To write the truth with such passion and grace is remarkable enough. To do this in loving memory of a partner is tribute indeed.
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Tasse Godinez
reviewed Nothing Was the Same: A Memoir on March 26, 2011
Nothing Was the Same: A Memoir
Jamison is on my radar as a prominent person with a disability, though she has never explicitly articulated a disabled identity. Her An Unquiet Mind is a hugely important book, politically speaking, and I salute her for outing herself as someone with severe bipolar, and effectively painting a target on her back for religious nutjobs and many of her ablest asshole colleagues in the medical profession. I mean, what the hell do I know about being targeted in wank, compared to that?
This book, though . . . *shakes head*. It's a memoir of her husband's loss to cancer. I picked it up for blah personal reasons blah, and also because it was supposed to be about her struggle to distinguish the grief processes from the organic, chemical misfunction of her illness. As a mental health professional and a person with a mental illness, she could really get at this fascinating thing - distinguishing useful emotion from pathological, talking about the biological processes of intense emotion from the inside.
Yeah no. The book is about that for roughly two pages. The rest of the time it's an extended obituary, and not a very interesting one. By which I mean that I'm glad she wrote it, because I absolutely get how important a process that can be. I just don't know why it needed to be published.
The book is mostly about her husband, how wonderful he was, how much she loved him. And then he dies, and it sucks. You'd think, hey, grief is universal, but no. this book isn't about grief, it's about Jamison delivering a long eulogy to someone she loved that almost none of her readers will know. And it's all told in this ponderous, stylized, cinematic mode, all 'and then he dipped the ring in the North Se and put it on my finger.' Lots of tell, everything was so romantic and intensely meaningful, you know. I'm sure these things actually happened, but the book has this roseate glow of recollection to it that precludes the more complex, the emotionally analytical, the clarity of insight I expect from Jamison.
Like I said: glad she wrote it. She clearly needed to. I just don't see what anyone else reading it will get from it.
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