Photographing children Book

Interesting self-help book that guides you into "reframing" any situation - the meaning of any situation depends upon the "frame" in which it is perceived.

For example:
I used to get disgusted - almost angry because I was constantly having to drag the vacuum out due to the profuse shedding of my doggies. This book helped me to be grateful for the hairy mess. Would I rather have my precious girls and hair on the floor or a spotless carpet with no pets and loneliness?