Getting To Commitment Book

Great book on telling you in every single way you've fucked up your relationship and are a complete failure in that side. The most valuable part is looking at your actions, your patterns, rather than your intentions and words. I had 3 out of the 7 traits... so that is something. I wish I read this before I did any committed relationships. It really does show that exclusive monogamous relationships are about a particular ideology and framework - one that the author unfortunately never questions, mentions of alternative structures are never raised - however that is the thing, long-term exclusive monogamous relationships are one strict ideology that this books outlines how to implement well.