Emotional unavailability Book

I picked this book up by chance during a visit to Barnes and Noble bookstore in downtown Minneapolis with friends who were visiting from the Phoenix area in the middle of one of our coldest months. Sorry Kathy and Kelly! Emotional Unavailability is truly one of the most helpful, empowering books I have ever read! I loaned my original copy to someone and they didn't return it, so my husband ordered another copy for me. Realizing that I have been involved with emotionally unavailable people most of my life, but I desired change and began to realize that change begins with me! Reading this book has given me some very helpful tools! An interesting caveat is that after reading the book, I read the back cover and discovered that the author actually was living in the very same city as me! I would love to have a face to face discussion with her to share how much the book impacted my life! My take away was that I do not have to live in a world of emotionally unavailable people! I am learning to be more assertive in telling others what I want and how I feel.