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Special Thanks to | xi | |
Introduction: Positive Pushing | xiii | |
Part I | Self-Esteem | 1 |
Chapter 1 | Aren't I Good Enough for You? | 5 |
Red Flags | 8 | |
Developing Your Child's Sense of Security | 8 | |
Developing Your Child's Sense of Competence | 12 | |
Global Belief | 13 | |
Specific Belief | 17 | |
Specific Belief Without Global Belief | 20 | |
Self-Reflection | 22 | |
Accuracy of Self-Perceptions | 24 | |
Rules for Achievement and Happiness | 27 | |
Chapter 2 | Can't You Just Love Me for Me? | 29 |
Red Flags | 32 | |
Red Flag #1 | Conditional Love | 32 |
Red Flag #2 | Dangling-Carrot Love | 34 |
Red Flag #3 | Creating a Human Doing | 36 |
Red Flag #4 | Unhealthy Parental Expectations | 37 |
Red Flag #5 | Unhealthy Praise and Punishment | 42 |
Red Flag #6 | Being a Bottom-Line Parent | 43 |
Red Flag #7 | Creating a Unidimensional Child | 44 |
Red Flag #8 | Perfectionism | 46 |
Giving Healthy Love | 50 | |
Value Love | 50 | |
Create a Human Being | 50 | |
Healthy Parental Expectations | 52 | |
Healthy Praise and Punishment | 59 | |
Strive for Excellence | 61 | |
Parental Dos and Don'ts | 63 | |
Chapter 3 | Who Is the Real Me? | 67 |
Red Flags | 72 | |
Red Flag #1 | Self-Hate | 72 |
Red Flag #2 | Self-Punishment | 73 |
Red Flag #3 | Self-Destruction | 74 |
Developing Your Child's True Self | 75 | |
Know the True Self | 75 | |
Wage War Against the False Self | 77 | |
False Self or True Self: Your Choice | 79 | |
Part II | Ownership | 81 |
Chapter 4 | Whose Life Is This, Anyway? | 87 |
Your Needs vs. Your Child's Needs | 90 | |
Red Flags | 91 | |
Red Flag #1 | Fixing Your Imperfect Self | 91 |
Red Flag #2 | Merging with Your Child | 92 |
Red Flag #3 | Placing Your Happiness on Your Child's Shoulders | 95 |
Red Flag #4 | Losing Perspective | 97 |
Red Flag #5 | Overmatching Your Child | 99 |
Red Flag #6 | Battle of Wills | 102 |
Putting Your Child's Needs First | 103 | |
Recognize Your Own Needs | 104 | |
Gain and Maintain Perspective | 105 | |
Understand Your Child's Needs | 107 | |
Avoid the Battle of Wills | 108 | |
Challenge Your Child | 109 | |
The Sibling Factor | 110 | |
Get a Life | 111 | |
Control vs. Nurture Your Child | 112 | |
Chapter 5 | Who's in Charge Here? | 113 |
Forced Participation | 114 | |
Guided Participation | 116 | |
Red Flags | 117 | |
Red Flag #1 | Taking Away the Fun | 117 |
Red Flag #2 | Loss of Motivation | 117 |
Find the Fun Again | 118 | |
Regaining Motivation | 120 | |
Process of Guided Participation | 123 | |
Exposure to Achievement Activities | 123 | |
Time Management | 124 | |
Initial Impetus | 128 | |
Provide Resources | 130 | |
Commitment | 131 | |
Goal Setting | 135 | |
Ongoing Encouragement | 139 | |
Freedom | 140 | |
Your Child's Choice | 140 | |
Suggestions for Raising Successful Achievers | 142 | |
Chapter 6 | Why Won't You Let Me Grow Up? | 143 |
Contingent Children | 144 | |
Independent Children | 147 | |
Parent and Child Responsibilities | 149 | |
Your Responsibilities | 149 | |
Your Child's Responsibilities | 150 | |
Red Flags | 150 | |
Red Flag #1 | Pleasers | 151 |
Red Flag #2 | Disappointers | 152 |
Red Flag #3 | Reactors | 153 |
Red Flag #4 | Frustrators | 155 |
Red Flag #5 | Rejecters | 156 |
Red Flag #6 | Being Friends with Your Child | 157 |
Red Flag #7 | Taking on Your Child's Responsibilities | 158 |
Raising an Independent Child | 161 | |
Be the Parent | 161 | |
Teach Responsibility | 162 | |
Demand Accountability | 163 | |
Encourage Exploration | 165 | |
Respond to Early Warning Signs | 167 | |
Life Lessons for Ownership | 169 | |
Part III | Emotional Mastery | 171 |
Chapter 7 | Why Am I So Scared? | 175 |
Emotional Threat | 175 | |
Emotional Vicious Cycle | 176 | |
Fear of Failure | 178 | |
Fear of Success | 180 | |
Emotional Challenge | 182 | |
Emotional Upward Spiral | 183 | |
Red Flags | 184 | |
Red Flag #1 | Performance Anxiety | 184 |
Red Flag #2 | Punishment Exceeds the Crime | 185 |
Red Flag #3 | Self-Defeating Behavior | 186 |
Red Flag #4 | Safety Zone | 188 |
Red Flag #5 | Unhappy Success | 190 |
Developing Emotional Challenge | 191 | |
Value of Success and Failure | 192 | |
Risk-Taking | 194 | |
Perspective on Mistakes | 197 | |
Respond Positively to Adversity | 198 | |
Last 5 Percent | 199 | |
Emotional Lessons for Achievement | 200 | |
Chapter 8 | Will I Be a Child Forever? | 202 |
Red Flags | 204 | |
Red Flag #1 | Immature Attitudes | 205 |
Red Flag #2 | Immature Reactions to Disappointment | 207 |
Red Flag #3 | Immature Reactions to Frustration | 208 |
Red Flag #4 | Immature Anger | 209 |
Red Flag #5 | Emotional Overprotection | 210 |
Red Flag #6 | Assuming Emotional Maturity | 211 |
Red Flag #7 | No Emotions | 212 |
Emotional Maturity | 214 | |
Mature Attitudes | 215 | |
Mature Reactions to Disappointment | 217 | |
Mature Reactions to Frustration | 219 | |
Mature Anger | 221 | |
Emotionally Mature Parents | 223 | |
Don't Forget the Positive Emotions | 225 | |
Keys to Emotional Maturity | 226 | |
Chapter 9 | What Can I Do? | 227 |
Emotional Habits | 227 | |
Emotional Victims | 230 | |
Emotional Masters | 231 | |
Red Flags | 233 | |
Raising an Emotional Master | 234 | |
Parents as Emotional Masters | 235 | |
Perspective of Emotional Masters | 237 | |
Choosing to Be an Emotional Master | 238 | |
Developing Emotional Mastery | 239 | |
Emotional Mastery Is a Process | 243 | |
Skills for Emotional Mastery | 245 | |
Afterword | 247 | |
Bibliography | 249 | |
Index | 257 |
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