Lady in Waiting: Becoming God's Best While Waiting for Mr. Right Book

I began reading this book several years ago before meeting my fiance, and I was unable to finish it. Usually I am a firm believer in "if you haven't read the whole book, you're unqualified to make a review." Normally, yes. In this case, the reason I was unable to finish it was because I got so bogged down with the feeling that the author was very "bitter and single," moping about how life would begin when she met someone (while at the same time passionately denying that you needed a man). Several of the author's points were contradictory, because while she said she didn't need someone, I still got the impression she felt like she needed someone to be content. I felt like this book was more about becoming someone who was so obedient to God he blesses you with a man, rather than being your best self in spite of having someone, and enjoying that time of singleness. I got a bit too much of the x = y scenario (if I become godly woman, then I get man), which I don't really agree with. I think there is much more to single life than being "in waiting." Read with a grain of salt!