How to Find the Love of Your Life : A Step-by-Step Program That Really Works Book

Contents
Acknowledgments
1. Chance Encounters and Other Popular Myths - The Problem with the Waiting Game
·The Numbers Game
Lack of Intimacy
The Rejection Factor
·The Chance Encounter Myth
·A Word to Women
·Focus the Picture
·Where We Go from Here
2. There's Gotta Be a Better Way
·Finding the Perfect Job/Finding the Love of Your Life
·An Old-Fashioned Idea
·Why 90 Days?
3. Removing Obstacles
·The Power of Visualization
·The Principle of Vacuum (Uncluttering the Mind)
Social Clutter
Prioritizing Your Life
·Singlehood vs. a Permanent Relationship
·Overcoming the Fear of Rejection
·Making a Commitment
·Exercises for Removing Obstacles
4. Thrive on Your Uniqueness
·What's Unique About Me?
·What Can I Offer a Suitable POS?
·How Do I Communicate My Uniqueness?
5. What Color Is Your Paradise?
·Attractions and Detriments
·How Does Long-Lasting Love Happen?
The Shock of Recognition
·Love and Self-Esteem
·The Age Factor
·The "Rich and Sexy" Trap
6. The Secret of Being "Attract"-ive
·Seven Ways to Becoming "Attract"-ive to Others
7. The Campaign: Part I—Beginning the Search
·The Campaign: An Overview
·The Campaign: The Specifics
·Make a List
Set an Appointment
Conduct a Referral Interview
Set Up a Rendezvous
8. The Campaign: Part II—Getting to Know Each Other (The Rendezvous)
·Intimacy—a Gradual Process
·Your Rendezvous: Steps Toward Intimacy
·Getting to Know Each Other
·Final Compatibility Check
·The Socially Monogamous
9. The Campaign: Part III—After the Rendezvous: Eight Ways to Promote Greater Intimacy
·Sharing an Adventure
·Learn About the Other Person's Passion
·Create an Adventure Out of Everyday Events
·Create a Romantic Evening
·Involve Your Children
·Talk Out Problems
·Don't "Interpret" Your Relationship
·Toward Becoming "Best Friends"
10. I Will . . . Until
·Time Commitment
·Developing a Support System
11. Men, Love, and Sex
·How to Deal with Men
·Sex and Your Campaign
12. Variations of the Campaign: How to Use What You've Learned in New Ways
·Blind Dates
·Dinner Parties and Other Arranged Introductions
·Classes, Courses, and Seminars
·Groups, Associations, and Clubs
·The 20/20 Party
·For the "Higher Purpose" Person

Selected Bibliography
Index
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