What Brothers Think, What Sistahs Know about Sex: The Real Deal on Passion, Loving, and Intimacy Book

	Acknowledgments	ix
	Introduction	xi
Chapter 1	The First Date: Is It Ever Okay to Do It?	1
Chapter 2	The First Time: Getting to the Home Run	13
Chapter 3	Performance Anxiety: Ridding the Jitters	25
Chapter 4	Talking About It	39
Chapter 5	No Glove, No Love: Who's Responsible for Safe Sex?	50
Chapter 6	Date Rape: When Does No Mean No?	62
Chapter 7	Booty Calls	76
Chapter 8	When You're Not the Only One	86
Chapter 9	When There's No Sexual Attraction	101
Chapter 10	Having Sex vs. Making Love	114
Chapter 11	Sex After the Hookup	126
Chapter 12	Public Displays of Affection: Why Can't You Show Me Some Love?	136
Chapter 13	Intimacy with Others: When Is It Cheating?	146
Chapter 14	Foreplay	165
Chapter 15	Inhibitions	174
Chapter 16	Creativity: Who's Responsible for Making Sex Sizzle?	186
Chapter 17	Masturbation	197
Chapter 18	Porn, Strip Clubs, and All Manner of Freakiness	209
Chapter 19	What to Do When You Don't Wanna	221
Chapter 20	Teenagers	231