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Preface to the Second Edition | xiii | |
Acknowledgments | xv | |
Foreword | xix | |
Section I | The Grief of Pregnancy Loss | |
1 | When an Unborn or Newborn Baby Dies | 3 |
Bonding with Your Unborn Baby | 3 | |
Grieving for Your Baby | 4 | |
The Phases of Grief | 5 | |
Initial Shock | 6 | |
Anticipatory Grief | 7 | |
Acute Grief | 8 | |
Grief Work | 11 | |
Integration of Your Grief | 13 | |
Anniversary Reactions | 14 | |
Grieving Loss in a Multiple Pregnancy | 14 | |
If You Have Difficulty Mourning | 15 | |
Pregnancy Loss Changes You | 17 | |
Key Points to Help You Grieve | 17 | |
2 | The Mother's Experience | 19 |
Factors That Affect Your Grief | 19 | |
Feeling You Failed the Baby's Father | 21 | |
The Ways Women Grieve | 22 | |
Your Return to the Community | 22 | |
Key Points for Bereaved Mothers | 23 | |
3 | The Father's Experience | 25 |
Bonding with Your Baby | 25 | |
Your Grief and the Pressure to Move On | 26 | |
Your Concern for the Baby's Mother | 27 | |
The Urge to Be Strong | 27 | |
When Your Grief Is Unfinished | 30 | |
Key Points for Bereaved Fathers | 30 | |
4 | Pregnancy Loss and Your Relationship: Grieving Together and Apart | 32 |
Your Relationship during the Crisis | 32 | |
Incongruent Grief | 34 | |
Your Grief and Sexuality | 37 | |
How Pregnancy Loss Can Change Your Relationship | 40 | |
Key Points for Couples | 43 | |
Section II | Pregnancy Loss Examined | |
5 | Early Losses | 47 |
Issues Common to All Early Losses | 47 | |
Experiencing a Miscarriage: Symptoms and Diagnosis, Treatment, Causes, Emotional Aftermath | 50 | |
Experiencing an Ectopic Pregnancy: Symptoms and Diagnosis, Treatment, Causes, Emotional Aftermath | 56 | |
Experiencing a Molar Pregnancy: Symptoms and Diagnosis, Treatment, Causes, Emotional Aftermath | 60 | |
Key Points for Coping with Your Early Loss | 63 | |
6 | Crisis Pregnancies and Loss | 64 |
Issues Common to All Crisis Pregnancies | 64 | |
Experiencing Preterm Labor: Symptoms and Diagnosis, Treatment, Causes, Emotional Aftermath | 66 | |
Experiencing Premature Rupture of the Membranes: Symptoms and Diagnosis, Treatment, Causes, Emotional Aftermath | 70 | |
Experiencing Cervical Incompetence: Symptoms and Diagnosis, Treatment, Causes, Emotional Aftermath | 73 | |
Key Points for Coping with Your Loss in a Crisis Pregnancy | 77 | |
7 | Stillbirth and Newborn Death | 78 |
Issues Common to All Stillbirths and Newborn Deaths | 78 | |
Experiencing a Stillbirth: Diagnosis and Treatment, Causes, Emotional Aftermath | 82 | |
Experiencing a Newborn Death: Causes, Emotional Aftermath | 86 | |
Key Points for Coping with Your Stillbirth or Newborn Death | 92 | |
8 | Prenatal Diagnosis and the Burden of Choice | 93 |
Preparing for Prenatal Testing and Receiving the Results | 95 | |
Continuing Your Pregnancy when Your Baby Is Not Expected to Live | 97 | |
Your Hospital Stay when You End a Pregnancy | 98 | |
How to Discuss Ending Your Pregnancy with Your Children | 99 | |
Your Emotional Recovery after Ending Your Pregnancy | 100 | |
Finding the Support You Need after Ending Your Pregnancy | 102 | |
Key Points to Help You Cope with an Impaired Pregnancy | 104 | |
Section III | The Response of Others | |
9 | Medical Care when You Lose Your Pregnancy | 109 |
Learning about Your Loss | 109 | |
Your Hospital Care | 111 | |
Special Considerations with Stillbirth and Newborn Death | 114 | |
Communication among Medical Staff | 118 | |
Your Hospital Discharge and Follow-up Care | 119 | |
How You Can Improve Hospital Bereavement Services | 121 | |
Key Points to Help You Obtain Compassionate Medical Care | 123 | |
Bereavement Protocol | 124 | |
10 | Finding Solace in Your Religion | 125 |
When Your Loss Feels Like Retribution | 126 | |
When You Turn to the Clergy | 126 | |
When the Clergy Console You | 127 | |
When Religion May Disappoint You | 128 | |
The Relevance of Rituals | 129 | |
Naming Your Baby | 131 | |
Burying or Cremating Your Baby | 132 | |
When Ritual Is Denied | 133 | |
Theology and Ritual | 134 | |
Jewish Traditions | 134 | |
Islamic Traditions | 136 | |
Catholic Traditions | 137 | |
Protestant Traditions | 139 | |
Mixed Religions | 139 | |
The Need for Special Rituals | 140 | |
Rituals for Early Losses | 141 | |
Rituals for Ending an Impaired Pregnancy | 141 | |
Your Return to Faith | 143 | |
Key Points to Help You Find Solace in Your Religion | 143 | |
11 | The Response of Your Family and Friends | 145 |
Telling People about Your Loss | 145 | |
Informing Close Family and Friends | 145 | |
Telling Your Wider Social Circle | 146 | |
Special Issues | 149 | |
Finding the Support You Need | 149 | |
Handling Thoughtless Remarks | 151 | |
Coping with Social Pressures | 153 | |
Being with Pregnant Women and Little Children | 154 | |
Key Points to Help You with Family and Friends | 157 | |
The Five Worst Comments You Might Hear | 157 | |
The Five Best Comments You Might Hear | 158 | |
12 | Helping Your Children at Home | 159 |
How to Talk with Your Child | 160 | |
Toddlers and Preschoolers | 161 | |
Children Age Six to Eleven | 163 | |
Preteens and Teenagers | 165 | |
Special Issues for You to Consider | 165 | |
Saying Good-bye to a Baby Sibling | 166 | |
Your Child and Religious Rituals | 166 | |
Your Child's Peers | 167 | |
After the Crisis | 168 | |
If You and Your Family Need Extra Help | 169 | |
Key Points to Help Your Children after a Loss | 171 | |
13 | For Bereaved Grandparents | 172 |
Grandparents' Guilt | 174 | |
Helping Your Adult Children | 175 | |
Family Celebrations and Holidays | 176 | |
Pregnancy after a Loss | 177 | |
Strengthening Family Ties | 177 | |
Key Points for Bereaved Grandparents | 178 | |
Section IV | Special Circumstances | |
14 | The Impact of Pregnancy Loss on Your Career | 181 |
Making Career Decisions | 181 | |
Men and Their Careers | 183 | |
Your Career Choices and High-Risk Pregnancy | 184 | |
Key Points when Pregnancy Loss Affects Your Career | 187 | |
15 | Pregnancy Loss and Infertility: A Twofold Sorrow | 188 |
Coping with a Pregnancy Reduction | 189 | |
When to Stop Trying to Conceive | 191 | |
Enduring Uncertainty | 194 | |
Key Points to Help You Cope with Pregnancy Loss and Infertility | 196 | |
16 | Becoming Pregnant Again | 197 |
Making the Decision | 197 | |
The Right Timing | 198 | |
Finding Out You Are Pregnant Again | 199 | |
Telling Others | 200 | |
If a Loss Occurs Again | 201 | |
Reconsidering Your Medical Care | 202 | |
Changing Doctors | 202 | |
Use of Technology | 203 | |
Surviving the New Pregnancy | 205 | |
For Mothers Who Must Manage a Subsequent High-Risk Pregnancy | 208 | |
Parenting after Your Loss | 210 | |
Experiencing the Birth of a Healthy Baby | 210 | |
Problems with Child Rearing | 210 | |
Responding to Awkward Questions | 211 | |
Key Points to Help You Survive a Subsequent Pregnancy | 212 | |
Appendices | ||
A | Managing Problem Pregnancies | 213 |
B | Rituals | 226 |
C | Pregnancy Loss and the Environment | 240 |
D | Resources | 244 |
Resources for Pregnancy Loss | 244 | |
Resources for Loss in Multiple Gestations | 248 | |
Resources Online | 249 | |
Resources for Psychotherapy | 249 | |
Resources for Genetics Information and for Ending a Pregnancy | 251 | |
Resources for Infertility | 253 | |
Resources for Childbirth | 253 | |
Resources for Adoption | 255 | |
Resources on Health and Pregnancy | 256 | |
Glossary | 258 | |
Bibliography | 267 | |
Index | 291 |
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