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Preface | xvii |
How to Use This Book | xxx |
A Note on Gender and Language | xxxii |
PART I TO ADOPT OR NOT TO ADOPT | 1 |
Chapter 1. Hopes, Fears, and Realities | 3 |
Reasons for Adopting | 6 |
Some Common Concerns about Adoption | 8 |
How Old Is Too Old to Parent? | 8 |
How Much Money Do I Need to Make to Adopt a Child? | 11 |
How Much Time Will I Need to Take Off from Work When | |
I Adopt? | 12 |
What If I'm Still Trying to Become Pregnant? | 14 |
Can I Adopt Now If I Had Cancer Five Years Ago? | 15 |
Can I Adopt If I've Been in Therapy? | 16 |
I'm Living with a Partner, but Neither of Us Wants to | |
Marry | 17 |
Ambivalence Is Normal | 18 |
Your Adoption Journal | 24 |
Your Adoption Network | 25 |
Exercises | 26 |
Things to Do | 30 |
Chapter 2. Parenting Without a Partner | 31 |
Resolving Issues and Moving Forward | 31 |
Strengths of the One-Parent Adoptive Family | 36 |
Exercises | 39 |
Things to Do | 40 |
Chapter 3. Breaking the News and Creating a Support | |
Network | 42 |
Feedback and Support for the Decision-Making Process | 43 |
Breaking the News | 46 |
Family | 47 |
Friends | 53 |
Your Job | 55 |
Creating a Support Network | 58 |
Exercises | 61 |
Chapter 4. Children by Birth versus Adoption | 66 |
Coping with Impaired Fertility | 67 |
Choosing Adoption First | 70 |
Exercises | 74 |
Things to Do | 76 |
Chapter 5. The Needs of Adopted Children | 77 |
Core Issues for Adopted Children | 80 |
Talking to Your Child about Adoption | 84 |
Children's Rights | 91 |
The Resilient Child | 92 |
Issues for the One-Parent Family | 96 |
Names and Naming | 103 |
Exercises | 104 |
Chapter 6. A Look into the Future | 113 |
The Ten-Year Fantasy | 114 |
A Day with and without a Child | 117 |
The Decision-Maker's Bill of Rights | 118 |
Exercises | 120 |
Chapter 7. Choosing Not to Adopt (the Child-Free Choice) | 122 |
Things to Do | 126 |
PART II THE ADOPTION PROCESS FOR SINGLES | 129 |
Chapter 8. The Child Who Is Right for You | 131 |
A Girl or a Boy? | 134 |
What about Age and Life History? | 135 |
Adopting Siblings | 138 |
Children with Special Needs | 139 |
Transracial Adoption | 149 |
Transreligious Adoption | 159 |
Exercises | 160 |
Chapter 9. Types of Adoption | 164 |
Domestic Adoption through Child Public Welfare | |
Agencies | 167 |
Adoption from the Foster Care System | 167 |
Foster Care and Legal Risk Placement | 173 |
The Pros and Cons of Adopting a Child through a Child | |
Public Welfare Agency | 176 |
The Advantages of Adopting a Child through a Child | |
Public Welfare Agency | 176 |
The Disadvantages of Adopting a Child through a Child | |
Public Welfare Agency | 178 |
Other Considerations | 178 |
Domestic Private Adoption | 178 |
Private Agencies and the Domestic Adoption of Infants | 178 |
The Advantages of Domestic Private Adoption of Infants | 183 |
The Disadvantages of Domestic Private Adoption of | |
Infants | 184 |
Independent Private Domestic Adoption | 184 |
The Advantages of Independent Private Domestic | |
Adoption | 189 |
The Disadvantages of Independent Private Domestic | |
Adoption | 189 |
Other Considerations | 190 |
Identified Adoption | 191 |
Open Adoption and Semi-Open Adoption | 193 |
International Adoption | 199 |
Adopting through Home Study Agencies and Placement | |
Agencies | 202 |
The Immigration and Naturalization Service and the | |
International Adoption Process | 203 |
Independent International Adoption | 210 |
Traveling to Adopt Your Child | 212 |
The Pros and Cons of International Adoption | 214 |
The Advantages of International Adoption | 214 |
The Disadvantages of International Adoption | 214 |
Other Considerations | 215 |
General Considerations for All Types of Adoption | 215 |
Things to Do | 218 |
Chapter 10. Choosing an Agency and Doing a Home Study | 219 |
Choosing an Agency | 220 |
The Home Study | 226 |
What Is a Home Study? | 226 |
General Considerations | 233 |
Some Special Concerns in the Home Study | 235 |
Single Men Adopting | 235 |
Gay and Lesbian Adoption | 237 |
International Gay and Lesbian Adoption | 238 |
Domestic Gay and Lesbian Adoption | 239 |
Should You Be Open about Your Sexual Orientation? | 240 |
The Post-Placement | 243 |
Exercise | 243 |
Things to Do | 244 |
Chapter 11. Finances | 246 |
Tax Credits, Subsidies, and Adoption Assistance | 249 |
Insurance | 255 |
Health Insurance | 255 |
Disability Insurance | 256 |
Life Insurance | 256 |
Child-Related Expenses | 257 |
Childcare and Schools | 257 |
College and Vocational Schools | 259 |
Financial Stability | 259 |
Exercises | 261 |
Chapter 12. What's Next? | 266 |
Adding to Your Family | 266 |
Balance | 269 |
Exercise | 272 |
Afterword | 273 |
Appendix A Are You Ready? | 277 |
Appendix B Creating Your Own Support Network | 281 |
Appendix C Resources | 285 |
Adoptive Parent Support Groups and Foster Parent | |
Organizations | 285 |
Single Adoptive Parent Support Groups | 285 |
National Single Adoptive Parent Organizations | 292 |
National Adoptive and Foster Parent Organizations | 293 |
Gay and Lesbian Adoption Resources | 300 |
Resources and Registries for Adoption | 302 |
Nationwide Adoption Resources and Registries | 302 |
Regional and State Adoption Registries and Resources | 304 |
International Adoption Resources by Country of Origin | 309 |
Other Adoption-Related Resources | 314 |
Other Resources | 317 |
Other Resources for Single Parents | 317 |
Medical Resources | 319 |
Disability and Other Special Needs Support | |
Organizations | 323 |
Printed Materials and Other Information | 330 |
Sources for Books and Other Media | 330 |
Periodicals | 331 |
Resources on the Internet | 334 |
Web Sites | 335 |
General Adoption Information Resources | 335 |
Gay and Lesbian Resources | 341 |
Web Sites in Canada | 342 |
International Adoption | 343 |
Travel | 345 |
Information on Adoption Subsidies | 346 |
Medical Resources for Children with Special Needs | 346 |
General Information Resources | 348 |
On-line Magazines | 350 |
Internet Discussion Groups | 351 |
Newsgroups | 351 |
Adoption Mailing Lists | 351 |
General Adoption Mailing Lists | 351 |
International Adoption Mailing Lists | 353 |
Other Mailing Lists of Interest | 357 |
Bulletin Boards | 357 |
Chat Groups | 359 |
Appendix D Selected Bibliography | 361 |
Acknowledgments | 389 |
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