Great Sexpectations Book

	Acknowledgments	9
	Introduction	11
1	My Expectations Went Out to Lunch	15
2	Where Do My Expectations Come From?	23
3	Myth: What You See Is What You Get	31
4	Myth: My Spouse Responds the Same Way I Do	39
5	Myth: Foreplay Occurs Just Before Intercourse	49
6	Myth: I Can't Respond to Nothing	55
7	Myth: Good Sex Is When You Fill My Wish List	61
8	Myth: Good-bye Passion, Good-bye Love	75
9	Myth: Couples Are Born Compatible	87
10	Love in the Time of Children	101
11	Affairs We Never Knew We Were Having	111
12	The Intimacy Earthquake	123
13	When She's Not Interested	137
14	When He's Not Interested	153
15	Learning to Love	173
16	Make It an Event	181
17	Start Your Own Affair at Home	187
	Notes	195