How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Jerk: The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind Book

Acknowledgments     ix
Your Heart Matters, but So Does Your Head     1
Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind     3
The RAM Plan     17
Healthy People Make Healthy Choices     31
Use Your Head...     51
Hello, I Love You, Won't You Tell Me Your Name?: RAM Dynamic 1: Do I Really Know You?     53
Find Your Soul Mate: Step One: Getting to Know Your Compatibility Potential     75
Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say: Step Two: Getting to Know the Skills for Building and Maintaining Relationships     109
"And My Third Wife Was a...": Step Three: Getting to Know the Patterns from Other Relationships     129
You Can't Marry Jethro Without Gettin' the Clampetts: Step Four: Getting to Know the Patterns of a Family Background     161
Find Your Mate's Soul: Step Five: Getting to Know the Patterns of the Conscience     185
... While Following Your Heart     213
Sketching the Date-Mate Profile: RAM Dynamic 2: Should I Trust You?     215
If I Scratch Your Back, Will You Scratch Mine?: RAM Dynamic 3: Will You Meet My Needs?     241
My Word Is My Bond-Maybe: RAM Dynamic 4: Can You Keep a Commitment?     263
How to Have Great Sex: RAM Dynamic 5: Should We Have Sex?     287
Conclusion: What the World Needs Now Is Pacemakers andTrendsetters     309
Notes     313
Index     321