Best Kind of Loving: A Black Woman's Guide to Finding Intimacy Book

	Acknowledgments
	Introduction: Kitchen Talk	1
1	Sisters Going Through Changes	7
2	Looking Back: There's a Lesson in Here for Me If I Can Just Find It	33
3	Looking Inward: Figuring Out What You Want from a Man	59
4	Looking at Brothers: What Makes Them the Way They Are	87
5	Getting a Handle on Hot-and-Heavy Issues	115
6	Getting a New Attitude Toward Breadwinning and Sex	139
7	Overdoing Your Part: When a Relationship Gets Out of Balance	159
8	Mate Selection: Mama Told Me to Pick You Out	183
9	Men from Other Cultures	221
10	Sing Your Own Song	247
	Resource List	283
	Reading List	285
	Index	287