Sons, lovers, and fathers Book

This was a fairly dry and slow read, but I appreciated a lot of the insights. She is certainly not afraid any aspect of the conversation on gender and gender based violence. It is clear that she is writing in a feminist perspective, but even within that, she appears to distance herself from some of the more radical feminist thinkers, like Andrea Dworkin.

It was helpful see a brief overview of the evolution of masculinity and masculine ideals. It helped to put a lot of current views in perspective. One thing for sure, there is no lack of research. I don't think she went two sentences throughout the whole book without using some kind of reference.

One thing I walked away from was the idea that masculine violence cannot simply be addressed as a personal, psychological issue. She insists that all of the personal change happening in men's groups in the world wouldn't be able to impact what is already systematized. She appeals to reader to address it both as a personal and sociological issue.