Counseling exceptional children Book

I thought the idea of this book sounded great--learn how to be a better parent based on the science of brain development. However, I would argue there is not much science here. Yes, the stuff about sensory development is fine and well-supported, but the rest of the stuff (about intelligence and emotional development, for example) is total bunk. Much of it is based on behavioral psychology experiments in infants, which I find very unconvincing. I know this is the best that can be done in such young children, but any conclusions based on these experiments seem way too speculative to believe.

Another caveat: if you happen to have a preemie, don't read this book. According to the author, your child will forever be behind other children his/her age without having had full time in the womb. Having a preemie is heartbreaking, and it is even worse being told--based on questionable studies--that your child will never live up to his/her full potential.

Also, this book--the title--says it is about the first 5 years of life, but it really is focused on prenatal development and the first year or two, so if you think you're going to learn a lot about your 4 year old, forget it.

I gave it 2 stars (instead of 1) because I did think the author did a good job of making a pretty dry subject come to life. Still, it took me a while to get through this. Read a fun novel instead.