Undefended Love Book

Undefended love goes way beyond the average popular psychology book. This provides a simple powerful model and practical tools for deep inquiry. The authors' approach is deep and effective. If your're looking for a quick fix (or a recipe for how to fix your parnter)you won't find it here. For those willing to do the work, though, it will be a rewarding and potentially transforming experience.

It will resonate for those familiar with Enneagram theory and from psychology. A primary assumption of the book is that in order for change to occur you must get beyong your compensatory personality into authentic emotional experience. It is only by being in the moment and feeling what is behind the personality that one can truly grow. I simply love that the book isn't limited to those looking to increase the intimacy in their relationship with another--but also for those of us who desire a deeper loving relationship with the self. This is where growth and trasformation--transcendence--is possible.