Theorizing the Sexual Child in Modernity Book

I had this in my possession from my local library for over 2 years. I started it one night and only got through the first few pages. Then left it for another day. I guess your reading is based on your motivation, I feel like I have made many mistakes as a parent but I was not motivated enough to research it. Most parenting or motivational "be happy" books I pick up and skim through and think "I already know this stuff" but I don't fulling follow through with it. Excuse after excuse. Finally, I picked up this book and "forced" myself to read it completely. I know have a notebook full of suggestions, motivations, insights and more on how to be a better parent. I have been working toward it already, to calm the anxiety, stop stressing so much. stop with the busy and rushed schedule. And over the last few years I have gotten better. But this book still had more insight for me and reminded me that it will not take a year or 2 or 5, it will take time, and some people develop faster than others. But I will get there.